If you’re a lady who’s a textaholic, but you find yourself in constant arguments, here are 15 messages that you should never send to a man…
1) “Do you still love your ex?”
Do you really want this answer? If it’s bad news, the best way to find this out is certainly not over text message. Yes we all get curious and are guilty of asking things in the hope of a negative answer, but worst case scenario; your guy is honest with you and it’s not what you want to hear. If you’ve got your suspicions, leave it until you’re face to face. Prying into his feelings can seriously damage the trust you’ve developed.
2) “Do you think I need to lose weight?”
We ask these kind of questions in the hope that the answer is: “of course not, I love you how you are.” For a woman this is always a rhetorical question, but some guys don’t realise this and will sometimes tell the blunt truth. The words: “you’ve let yourself go” can lead to irreversible trouble in paradise…
3) “How do you feel about me?”
Danger zone. This is an answer that you need to hear face to face. Guys can struggle to vocalise their feelings when put under pressure, especially over a text message. Don’t prompt an argument for no reason…
4) “Why have you stopped messaging me?”
Ghosting hurts, but if a guy isn’t messaging – the way to get him to respond isn’t to probe him and ask him why he hasn’t been in touch. Either wait for him to get back in touch and assume he’s busy or face reality, which might be that he’s just not that into you.
5) “Are you seeing anyone else?”
He’s going to say no. Simple as that. This shouts out ‘insecurity’ more than anything else. You should be confident that you’re enough to keep your man’s attention.