Have you ever wondered what men really want in a woman? You might think he’s only after a seductive smile and a hot body to match- but you’d be surprised that men actually think much deeper than this and want something more than the women they’re with. And while there’s no ‘cookie cutter girl’ for every men out there, here are 10 of the most common (and most important) things men look for in a girl they want to be with
1. She’s a Bit Mysterious
Women aren’t the only ones who go crazy over a bit of mystery- men want this too. They want a woman who doesn’t throw everything on the table in one sitting. Keep him guessing and you’ll keep him interested. It’s as simple as that. (Not to mention if you spill it out all at once he might think you’re a bit desperate- which is a HUGE turn off!)
2. She Sticks to Her Guns
Men want a woman who is secure in her beliefs and morals- not a woman who just thinks or does whatever her man tells her to do. That’s another HUGE turn off for men. Instead, they’d rather have a confident woman who “sticks to her guns” and will fight for her beliefs when the time is right.
3. Lets Him Do “Guy Things”
Girls need girl time, guys need guy time. It’s really as simple as that. And he certainly doesn’t want to be with a woman who gets mad every time he tries to go out with the boys. Men love it when a woman tells him, “It’s OK honey, go have fun with the guys. I’ll be here when you get back.” This shows you’re not only secure with yourself, but secure in the relationship as well.
4. Has a Sense of Humor
Whether you are a male or female, there’s nothing worse or more awkward then trying to have a fun conversation with someone who lacks a sense of humor. (You know, those terribly awkward “deer in the headlight” looks you get when you try to tell a joke?) Just like women are attracted to a funny personality, men are too. Don’t be afraid to show him your silly side. He will LOVE it- guaranteed.
5. Is Fairly Independent
Men are very attracted to independent women. They ooze confidence and class, and aren’t clingy in the slightest. You want to attract a man? Have your own life. Go to school, have a career, take art classes or go to the gym- whatever you’re into, keep yourself busy with it. Flash him a smile and flirt a little and he will be drawn to you.